You may feel scared, upset, ashamed or unsure of what to do next
It is not your fault, and you are not to blame. Nobody asks or deserves to be a victim of sexual violence. In some cases you might decide to confide in someone you trust with your experience of sexual violence. Sometimes, this person may not respond in a comforting manner. Sometimes people can make you feel like you are lying or that it was your fault. This can be a traumatic experience. It’s important to know that it is never your fault. There will be many people who do believe you. Reaching out for support from a counsellor or a sexual violence service is very helpful.
As a victim of sexual violence, you have rights under the Charter of Victims’ Rights. This means that people who you talk to from places like the Police, the hospital or support services:
- must treat you with respect, courtesy, compassion and dignity
- must give you certain information about the investigation and prosecution
- must give you information about support, services and remedies available to you.
If the sexual violence happened outside of Queensland, you can find more information here.